Sometimes, no matter how hard we try our best to avoid them; we get so caught up with their smooth words and its alleged meaning that we tend to ignore the obvious. They are only playing with us. For those who have been played, you already know what to look out for. For those who suspect they are dating a player, here are some signs that you should dump him, ASAP.

1. Short attention span

Players have a short attention span. They are not attentive because they don’t really pay attention. When they react or ask you the same things that you may have already mentioned in one of your previous conversations before, they don’t really care. Guys who are really into you would remember even the smallest of details about your life.

When you’re on a date, try to observe him. If he checks his phone every 5 minutes or if his eyes wander around too much, chances are, you are dating a player.

2. Too fast, too soon

One common thing that women deliberately ignore is when these players move too fast and too soon. Women immediately believe them only because they like what they hear. Like, for instance, when a guy says, “I love you” only after a few days that you guys have been seeing each other. That’s a red flag.

We’re not saying that it’s impossible to fall that madly in love that quickly, like in all the sappy romantic movies. But when you feel that it’s too good to be true, it probably is. So walk away while you still can.

3. You’re not friends on any social media platforms

It’s a given, like a basic instinct. If someone likes you, they will have this urge to have a glimpse into your personal life. They will stalk you on social media because they are interested in your life, your friends, and everything else about you.

So if you’re wondering why he hasn’t added you yet, but already said he loves you, well, that’s another huge red flag. He may want to get to know you, but he doesn’t want you to know the real him. He’s hiding something and he will try to justify why he hasn’t added you yet. Don’t believe him.

4. Inconsistent

Not all inconsistent people are players. Some people are just so damn busy that they can’t really update you about their life by texting you from time to time. If you know you’re dating a very busy man, somehow, you’d understand. If he really likes you, he will text you at least once or twice a day to let you know he thinks about you and misses you.

Players, however, operate differently. You would notice a big difference. One day they are blowing up your phone and then the next day you won’t hear from them for more than 24 hours, up to one week. They are probably too busy talking and dating other women.

5. Never make plans

They can’t tell you when you’ll meet next, even if you asked them. They are not sure when they are free or when they will have a date. They never make plans to meet your friends or family. They also never include you in their plans when they are meeting with their own family and friends.

These are just some of the most common signs to know that you are dating a player. So be warned. Don’t try to make excuses for them because you like them. Walk away before things get too deep.